Some men do cum and go. And I love them for it. Some men will intentionally forgo a climax, because while what they want is to have sex with you, they also want to keep your attention for much longer than a cybersex quickie. Some will be quite forthright about this and some will be more evasive, passive and tricky about it. "Attention whore" is a meme for a reason. A lot of people crave attention more than the physical release of an orgasm.
Cue comments about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs in an Immersionist world or, conversely, the old saying about men paying prostitutes to leave.
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